Author: Henry Murphy

In the pursuit of our dreams and goals, losses are an inevitable part of the journey. However, it’s essential to understand that every loss carries a valuable lesson.

“I don’t mind losing along the journey. Every loss is a lesson.”

Rather than seeing losses as setbacks, view them as opportunities for growth and learning. Each defeat can provide insights and experiences that propel you forward.

“I will always get better because I never stop trying.”

Continuous effort and perseverance are the keys to improvement. Success often lies in the willingness to keep trying, adapting, and evolving in the face of challenges.

“My favorite 2Pac line is, ‘You let them other buses cry at least you tried for it.’ You don’t want to be on the other side of not trying.”

These words from 2Pac serve as a powerful reminder that it’s better to try and potentially fail than to never make an attempt. Regret often accompanies inaction, while taking chances can lead to growth and achievement.

In summary, the journey to success is marked by losses, but it’s how we approach and learn from them that truly matters. Embrace setbacks as opportunities, stay persistent, and never be on the side of regretting not having tried.

There’s an undeniable power in purpose that transcends mere ambition. For some, the grind of daily life isn’t just about becoming something; it’s deeply grounded in a profound relationship with Jesus. In this blog post, we’ll explore the transformative influence of purpose, faith, and how they shape our daily lives.

The Power of Purpose

Purpose is the guiding light that leads us through the twists and turns of life. It’s the driving force that propels us forward when challenges seem insurmountable. Purpose gives meaning to our actions, infusing them with significance.

For many, discovering their purpose can be a lifelong journey. It’s not always a sudden revelation but rather a gradual understanding that unfolds over time. And when that purpose is found, it becomes a source of unyielding motivation.

The Grind with a Purpose

When your grind is grounded in purpose, it takes on a different dimension. It’s not just about going through the motions or chasing success for its own sake. It’s about aligning your daily actions with a higher calling.

Each day becomes an opportunity to fulfill your purpose, to live out your mission. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a professional, a parent, or pursuing any other path in life, having a clear sense of purpose can fuel your determination.

Faith as the Foundation

For many individuals, faith plays an essential role in shaping their sense of purpose. It provides a spiritual compass, guiding them towards a life that’s not solely self-centered but service-oriented. A relationship with Jesus, in particular, can provide a profound sense of purpose rooted in love, compassion, and faith.

Believing in a the Lord for my salvation and day to day offers solace in times of adversity and a profound sense of direction in life’s journey. It’s a reminder that we are part of something greater, and our actions can be a testament to our faith.

Attacking Each Day with Purpose

When you believe in purpose, every day becomes an opportunity to live out your calling. You attack each day not with a sense of dread or routine, but with excitement and intention. You see challenges as opportunities for growth, setbacks as stepping stones to something greater.

In conclusion, there’s something truly remarkable about living a life grounded in purpose and faith. It transforms the daily grind into a meaningful journey. It provides the strength to overcome obstacles and the resilience to keep moving forward. So, whether you’re seeking your purpose or have already found it, remember that it’s the driving force that can make each day a step towards a more fulfilling life.

Embarking on any entrepreneurial journey requires a profound understanding of your ‘why.’ Your motivation must be crystal clear, your purpose driving you forward.

In the world of entrepreneurship, time and money are precious resources that you must be prepared to invest and occasionally sacrifice. It’s a path filled with challenges and obstacles, but your ‘why’ serves as your guiding light.

When faced with adversity, remember the driving force behind your endeavors. Knowing your ‘why’ empowers you to push past hurdles and stay on course. It’s the anchor that keeps you grounded in your pursuit of success.

t has been about a year, since; I did my first blog on generation wealth. I have added three more trademarks under my belt and developed a publishing company called Murphy Madison. I am trying to be very intentional with my life as I work on all these pieces to bring this puzzle together in my lifetime. I can see it clearly I just pray I have enough time to see the impact.

I think about Arie a lot as I am putting these pieces together and my hope is that my children will also be a part of what my wife and I are building. Every journey comes with its ups and downs, and twists and turns, but that is just life. 

I read David Greene’s book quite a few times. The book is called,“Giving it all  away”. David Green is the owner of hobby lobby, a multi billion dollar company. He has Christian values that I appreciate very much, and I have been taking some lessons from him. One of the things I love the most is that he starts everyone from the bottom, everyone has to learn every aspect of the business. This is a beautiful model to follow and this is my aim and everything that we build.

If you plan to use your lifetime to build something and get the financial literacy to keep it. Then, you have to make sure the next generation do the same. Here are three takeaways that is important to passing down wealth:

When passing down generational wealth, consider:

1. **Education:** Ensure beneficiaries understand how to manage wealth responsibly and make informed financial decisions.

2. **Values and Communication:** Clearly communicate family values and expectations to maintain a sense of purpose and unity.

3. **Legal and Tax Implications:** Work with professionals to navigate legal and tax complexities, optimizing the wealth transfer process.

The culture never taught me to rest. Matter fact, if you wasn’t busy moving you was lazy where I was from. I kept that mentality when I got into business. I felt like I had something to prove to myself, because there was some seasons in my life when I had no ambition at all. 

I was about seven years into business and I rarely slowed down. Unless, my body made me. I put myself in the hospital a few times not listening to my body. I always read about the sabbath in the Bible,but I actually took it as optional. I never understood it was a command. The sabbath is a command for good reason, a day to slow down and rest and fellowship with God. 

I convinced my daughter to come to an event with me in Sarasota, Florida after getting my appendix removed. Normally for a quick turnaround like this I would work the event by myself. I maybe would hire someone from the area that I was going to. However, the doctor told me not to lift anything over 10 pounds. Every container of clothing was at least 45 pounds,so my hope was dwindling as he spoke. Literally, as he was talking, I was thinking of a method that I could use to get the clothing onto the cart and still make this work.

I figured out a system and then I got my daughter to move some of the heavier things. She was in the army and fit, so I figured she could handle it. We went to the event and we did well. A friend of mine, who was an artist at the event, I went to visit him in the green room. He told me that he haven’t seen too many people who hustle like I did. He was giving me props for that, but also rebuked me in the same conversation. He just left Jerusalem, and he got a better understanding of the Sabbath. He gave me a new perspective that I have ever heard. He made me consider truly resting on the sabbath. 

I left there with the intention of starting doing the Sabbath. It really took me some years to implement this. If you are reading this, I hope that it doesn’t take you years to do what is necessary. It’s good for your life spiritually, and for your health. God never intended us to work nonstop. As of the  writing of this blog, I have been consistent for almost 18 months now. I want to encourage you to find a day to rest and recharge. 

Anything that you set out to do, you have to do it for yourself first. You might have a few people cheering you on. That’s good, but don’t expect that. Focus on mindset. Then, focus on discipline. Finally, let discipline become your habit.

Why did I called this blog, “Who cares” ? Most of the time we get applauded after we accomplish something that most people think you can’t do. This is why it is very important to be OK with you and only you caring and not no one else. Nobody cares that you were up late working hard. Then, getting up early in the morning. That you’re  working hard month after month and year after year. Most people only see the mountain tops. They don’t see the climb. The climb is for you and no one else.

There are many benefits that come from success stories. Yet, no one may be around cheering you on while you were going through the valleys. It will be people in your future that will pay you to help them navigate through the same valleys. You must  stay focused on your goals, and you must stay diligent. You have to persevere through adversity. Because, adversity will show up when you try to become a better version of yourself. In conclusion, do it for you no one else and be content with that.

This concept is still crazy to me yet makes so much sense. The principles from “the richest man in Babylon” still reign true today. Please allow me to be straightforward before I begin.

I read this book years ago, but I am just now applying the principles. It takes a conscious effort to undo bad habits.

I believe that every entrepreneur especially should apply this principle. If you are of the Christian faith, then you understand giving 10% of your income to God. If we are honest and unaware of that, most people will begin to pay their bills. 

I believe in giving back to God for allowing us to create wealth. I personally give to my church because I know where the finances are going and what they do for kingdom work. We also give in other ways that do the same. I didn’t always do this, but God began to make my heart tender. 

I was on a trip to Ohio, and I started reading this book. I was like, “Wow, I should be paying myself, huh?” It made perfect sense and I knew that I should try to apply it right then. I honestly tried it and used the money almost weeks after I applied the principle. I begin to realize that this is a healthy habit that I was not used to. 

I recently started paying myself again. It is not an easy principle because it is foreign, but it is necessary. This money can be used for so many things, including eventually investing in stocks and bonds, and buying real estate, just to name a few.

This kind of brings us to a new perspective. Now, we give 80% of our money to pay our bills and other debts that we may have. This means that we need to look at our lifestyle closely to make sure that we are not living over our means. I can tell you right now that this is a hard reality to bear. We are all used to spending money how we want to and usually without thinking.

My dad taught me how to play basketball at a young age. He started me out with this  game called “ around the world”. The object of this game was to be able to shoot the basketball from anywhere on the basketball court.

You start out on the outside of the cylinder of the rim. You only get to move to the next spot if you hit the shot. By the time you were finished with one game, you may have been on that court for over two hours. There were some days that I might have put up over 500 shots. 

This is my approach to life and entrepreneurship. Sometimes the deterring factor of making that shot was my arch, sometimes it was the position of  my feet. The more I played the more I  had to tweak my shot. But I got better and better. 

This is the takeaway, go all in with what you are doing. Take your time, pivot when you have to. But keep putting up shots.