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Author: Henry Murphy

What Are We Doing Here, God?

What are we doing here, God?
What is this season?
Why am I going through this?

These are just a few of the questions I’ve asked the Lord over the last three years. I’ve been a believer for over 20 years, and one thing I’ve learned for certain is this: we can always depend on the character of God.

If you find yourself in a season you didn’t bring on yourself, meaning it’s not the result of sin or a financial whirlwind you caused, then it’s probably a season of correction or perfection.

Pastor Philip Anthony Mitchell broke it down so well. And when I heard his reel on Instagram, it hit me, this is what the Lord has been trying to tell me all along. He’s growing me and my wife in this season, and He is with us.

Sometimes, I pray and pray, and all I hear back is, “I am with you.”
And you know what? Eventually, you realize, that’s enough.

I’ve always been fascinated with God. The way He created everything, how the universe has been in perpetual motion since He spoke it into existence, it’s incredible. Everything in nature has a purpose. And when God said, “It is good,” in Genesis, it really was.

He is a good Shepherd, a good Leader, a good Father.
He will never leave us or forsake us. He is always praying for us, leading us, guiding us.

I know when this season is over and I look back, I’ll see so much more than I do now.
But even now, I can see that God is growing me in so many areas:
• Growing me in humility
• Growing me in patience
• Growing me to think deeper—strategically and conceptually
• Growing me to be more intentional with community
• Growing me to be more intentional with my wife
• Growing me in prayer
• Growing me in awareness and attentiveness

And I know there’s more.

I don’t usually use the term “legally blind” even though yes, that’s what the doctor said. And yes, it affects me every single day in ways most people don’t know. If you’ve followed my journey, you know I’ve written about it many times. But even in that, there’s a grace that God gives me I can’t explain.

My heart cries out: Lord, if You are in the valley, let me be here with You. And whenever You need me to go to the mountaintop to speak—I’ll go. I’ll do whatever You’ve told me to do. But then, let me come back here with You—where rest is, where peace is, where growth is.

So if you’re reading this and you’re in a storm, trust Him through it.
Endure.

There will be sleepless nights.
It will be frustrating.
It will bring tears.
But keep fighting.

Lean on Him more in these seasons.
Depend on Him more in these seasons.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

Sync Meetings: The Power of Alignment

Inspired by the book Buy Back Your Time by Dan Martell

One of the biggest gems in Buy Back Your Time is the importance of sync meetings, those regular check-ins with key people in your life or business that keep the engine running smooth. Dan talks about how these meetings aren’t just about updates; they’re about alignment. They allow you to identify bottlenecks, clarify expectations, and ultimately buy back time by making sure the people you’ve trusted with responsibility are actually in sync with your vision.

And let me tell you, I live by these meetings.

Every month, I meet with B. Harrison to get my credit right. Yes, I’m one of those people who never really used credit. And let me just say this: having no credit is basically the same as having bad credit. So here I am, opening new accounts and building it from the ground up. I’m not mad about it though, my debt is only around $3,000, so we’re not talking about a mountain to climb.

But I knew I needed someone who could break it down for me, someone who could not only teach me how to build credit properly, but also show me how to leverage it. If you’ve been rocking with my blogs for a while, then you know I built my entire business on cash. That’s a different world. Now I get to apply that same grind to learning how to use good debt wisely, and these meetings keep me focused.

Then there’s Sanchez, my distributor. We’re always talking e-commerce. We have regular strategy sessions where we discuss everything from distribution timelines to how his system updates benefit me as a seller. These aren’t just casual convos either; we come to the table with ideas, we leave with action steps, and we follow up.

B. Bell, my content strategist, is another one. When we meet, she’s always pushing me to be better, challenging me on how I communicate, helping me develop better content flows, and keeping the focus on being intentional. She makes sure that the content I put out actually leads people back to what I’m offering. She helps me serve, with structure.

And I’ve got more meetings just like this—every week, every month. Some are personal, some are business. But all of them are vital.

Because here’s the thing: sync meetings aren’t just a formality, they’re a lifeline.

They’re where vision meets accountability. They keep you from assuming everyone’s on the same page when they’re really in a whole different book.

They create consistency.

They produce clarity.

They give you margin.

And when you start stacking up consistent sync meetings across every lane of your life, finance, strategy, content, distribution, you start noticing that you’re not doing everything alone anymore. You’re leading better. You’re buying back your time.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

The Definition of Done: A Work in Progress – Part Two

Inspired by the book Buy Back Your Time by Dan Martell

This book got me locked in. Honestly, I’ve finished two other books while going through it, not because it’s boring, but because it’s the kind of book you shouldn’t rush through. There’s so much meat in it. One section in particular, where Dan breaks down bringing on an administrative assistant, has me in a chokehold. But I’m going to master it. I have to.

Back to the Definition of Done.

Another area I’m actively working on is with The Ground Up Academy, specifically the Facebook group page, updates inside the academy, and communication with the people I’m bringing on board. If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I try to be transparent. So let me be real.

There was one teacher I was bringing on. We’ve done business together for years. I’ve put a lot of money in their pocket over time, but that’s neither here nor there. Still, it played a part in how I felt about what happened.

We got everything locked in. Class scheduled. Good to go. Then, they hit me with a question that caught me off guard: “How much am I getting paid to teach this class?”

Now, in my mind, this was a no-brainer. I thought the communication was clear. My guy Charles had everything scheduled, and I assumed the DOD had been handled. But I never explicitly said, “This is not a paid opportunity.” In my head, it was obvious: this is a platform of influence, you’re an expert in your field, and this is an e-commerce academy, you’re guaranteed to get sales. But that was in my head. I never clearly stated that.

And the truth is, I’m still wrestling with it. Not gonna lie. I was disappointed that they didn’t show up, especially after all the history. But at the end of the day, it didn’t get done. And the reason? Lack of communication.

So whatever you’re building, whoever you’re bringing in, be clear. Trust me, the questions I found out at the end? I could’ve found out at the beginning and pivoted early. Instead, we lost time, lost energy, and now I have to find someone to fill the slot and adjust the whole agenda. That’s on me. Because I’m the owner.

If you’re reading this and you’re the owner everything falls on you. If you work for someone, understand this: your leader wants to be as clear as possible so that the whole team can understand the Definition of Done.

Because if we can get this part right, we can build something incredible, a team that thrives not just on getting things done, but on getting them done efficiently and with clarity.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

The Definition of Done: The Value of Clear Communication – Part One

Inspired by the book Buy Back Your Time by Dan Martell

I’m always working with someone on a new project. It’s just how I move. Recently, I was having a conversation with Director Henley someone I’ve been working with for years about our upcoming content day. During the discussion, he asked a simple but powerful question: What are the deliverables?

In other words what’s the final product? What should this actually look like when we’re done?

That question lingered in my mind, and while I was listening to Buy Back Your Time by Dan Martell, it hit me: the Definition of Done (DOD) starts with me. As the visionary, it’s my responsibility to clearly communicate what I want, what I need, and what a successful outcome looks like. It’s easy to forget that.

I’m also in the middle of vetting a photographer here in Atlanta. I believe I’ve found someone solid, and from the jump, her communication stood out. She asked all the right questions, questions that told me she’s been through this process before and she’s intentional about her deliverables. That matters. Because when I give her my vision and clearly explain my Definition of Done, we’re on the same page from day one.

But truthfully, in some areas, I still struggle. Sometimes, what’s in my head doesn’t make it to the team the way I see it. And that gap in communication? It can cost time, money, and energy. I’ve been an entrepreneur for over a decade, and I still feel like a newbie in this communication game. But I’m learning. Growing. Getting better.

This book reminded me of something I already knew but needed to hear again: Communication is everything. As entrepreneurs, we must define our DOD. And the people working with us? They need to understand that definition just as clearly as we do. That’s the only way the deliverables match the vision.

I hope this blog helps somebody. Because it’s helping me.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

Creative Entrepreneurs: Are You Running a Sustainable Business 

I talk to creative entrepreneurs and eComm brand owners all the time and when the conversation shifts to “how business is going,” most say things are good. They’re making sales, orders are rolling in, and their brand is moving.

But then I ask a few deeper questions, and the answers tell a different story:

The Questions That Separate Hustlers from Builders

ME: What’s your tax strategy?

THEM: I don’t really have one yet.

ME: Do you pull your profit first?

THEM: I don’t even know what that means.

ME: What’s your profit margin on each product?

THEM: I’m not sure, but I know I’m making money.

ME: What’s your average order value (AOV)?

THEM: I haven’t really tracked that yet.

ME: What’s your customer journey for turning one-time buyers into repeat customers?

THEM: I just try to give good service.

ME: What’s your mission statement?

THEM: I don’t have one yet.

ME: Is your brand trademarked?

THEM: Not yet, but it’s on the list.

If This Sounds Like You, Don’t Panic, but Don’t Stay There

If those answers hit a little too close to home, it’s not the end of the world, but it is a sign. A sign that it’s time to tighten up.

Making money is one thing. Building a real business is something else entirely. And if you’re serious about being in this for the long haul, you’ve got to get intentional.

Don’t Build Your Business on Quicksand

I’m not saying you have to understand every piece of industry jargon before you launch, but we do have to commit to consistently learning. We have to build our businesses on solid ground not quicksand.

It’s easy to chase temporary money and lose sight of the big picture. But that picture matters.

The goal is sustainability. Longevity. Legacy.

Pay Yourself First & Know Your Numbers

That means getting into the habit of paying yourself first.

That means knowing your numbers.

That means studying your industry until you know it inside and out.

If you don’t know where to begin, grab a copy of Profit First by Mike Michalowicz. It’ll teach you how to set your business up so profit is built-in, not an afterthought. This one mindset shift can change how you see money, how you run your business, and how long you last.

This Is Bigger Than Sales

Creative entrepreneurs listen. You weren’t just called to make sales. You were called to build.

Something that serves your people.

Feeds your family.

Leaves a legacy.

That takes strategy. That takes structure. That takes discipline.

So, let me ask you again:

Are you really running a business or are you running a sustainable business?

God Bless The Entrepreneur.

Why You Should Never Despise Small Beginnings in Business: You Gotta Start Somewhere

It works! I opened up my phone and saw a text message from Wells Fargo that said, “You just got paid!” I was like, “Who, me?” and I started smiling. I immediately made a Facebook post about small beginnings because somehow, I always tend to forget this.

When I built out my first company, I built it with the intention for it to make residual income, although I really didn’t know what I was doing at the time.

I got a deposit today from Teachable, and it reminded me of that. I built the system out about 10 months ago for The Ground Up Academy, and at the time, it was on a monthly subscription model. The deposits I’m seeing now come from the people who were grandfathered in. We’ve since moved to a yearly subscription base, but it’s still subscription-based nonetheless.

Let me get back to the point. When you’re building out a system, it takes time. A lot of times, we want something to work immediately, but for most people, it doesn’t work like that. Take your time, build it out right, and always be thinking about the future. Because if you build the foundation right, in time, the system will produce again and again and again for you.

I’m not sure if I remembered my first company when I started building out The Ground Up Academy, but I thank God that I was reminded of it today. So I wanted to do two things—one, write this blog to remind myself and anyone who finds it, and two, speak to my Facebook friends who are entrepreneurs: do not despise small beginnings. Everything has to start somewhere.

God Bless The Entrepreneur.

Scaling Comes with Chaos

My wife and I were watching YouTube when a billionaire was answering some questions. One of the titles he made a statement on was “Scaling Comes with Chaos,” and it triggered so many memories for me.

I usually don’t like to start a blog with a prejudice, but here it is: sometimes I hate the word “scaling.” Today’s landscape on social media has everyone talking about scale, scale, scale. There’s nothing inherently wrong with scaling, but to properly scale, the foundation matters. If you follow my blogs, you know this is something I preach about.

I’ll never forget when we first started scaling with Unapologetic®️. I was excited. I mean, real excited, like a kid in a candy store. But I quickly realized that scaling came with its own set of problems. One was having the cash flow to keep up with the inventory. And the second was the influx of shipping, which brought its own cash flow issues.

I wouldn’t admit this at the time, but it was chaos. If you asked my wife back then, she’d straight up tell you it was chaos. There were times when we were ready to ship, but there weren’t any shirts in the right sizes on the shelf. Some days, we had to hold onto packages because there wasn’t enough money to ship the ones we had already prepared. Let me tell you, this was frustrating beyond words.

My suggestion? Be slow. Create a cash flow reserve so that when it’s time to scale up, although it will come with its own set of problems, you’ll have the money on hand to get the inventory you need, ship everything, and bring in extra staff if needed.

Ultimately, we want to get to the point where we do scale our business, but start preparing now.

God Bless the Entrepreneur.

The Ground Up

I created The Ground Up Academy in an awkward place in my life an in-between stage, if I’m honest. I’ve been an entrepreneur for over a decade and have done pretty well in business. But I’ve also made a lot of mistakes. As I started reading more, thinking more, and working through different frameworks and systems, I realized how much of what I had learned could help others. There are so many entrepreneurs who could benefit from the lessons, strategies, and resources I’ve gained over the years, applying them to their own businesses to avoid some of the pitfalls I encountered.

A mentor of mine, Myron Golding, once shared how a tree grows in two directions, and it perfectly captured the heart behind The Ground Up Academy.

Before a tree stretches toward the sky, it first grows downward into the soil. Its roots take hold in the dark, damp earth, pushing through resistance, searching for stability and nourishment. That unseen work done in an environment few acknowledge or admire is what allows the tree to rise.

Business works the same way. The effort you put in behind the scenes, when no one is watching, is what makes the visible success possible. The late nights, the failures, the refining of skills, the sacrifices these are your roots. And just like a tree, the stronger your foundation, the greater your capacity to grow and flourish in the light.

People admire success, but they rarely see the struggle that built it. They see the brand, the revenue, the influence but not the hard-earned lessons and quiet perseverance beneath it.

That’s what The Ground Up Academy is about helping entrepreneurs lay a solid foundation. Because real, lasting success isn’t built on what people see. It’s built on what happens in the dark.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

The Learning Curve

You always have to give yourself grace with the learning curve when tackling anything new. Whether it’s business, personal growth, or mastering a new skill, progress takes time.

What Is the Learning Curve?

The learning curve is the process of getting better at something over time. At first, things may feel difficult or overwhelming, but with practice and experience, they become easier.

I read a lot of books, listen to countless podcasts, and participate in masterminds, constantly absorbing a wealth of information. Some of it is about entrepreneurship, some about becoming a better coach, and some about sales and pricing. Lately, I’ve been diving deep into finances and the stock market. With so much learning happening, I have to remind myself not to rush the process. I want this information to stick. After all, information without implementation means little to nothing.

When I explain e-commerce strategies and business systems to others, I often see frustration set in. They want to grasp everything instantly, but I always remind them that there’s a learning curve to it all.

Why Repetition Matters

This is why I believe in reading books multiple times. Each time, you pick up something new, especially as your perspective shifts with experience. Learning is a layered process; you’ll never absorb everything at once. However, as you grow, you retain more, and with each new piece of information, you gain clarity on how to apply it.

Turning Knowledge Into Power

The key isn’t just gaining knowledge but putting it into action. Knowledge can be power, but only if you use it. And take it from a high school dropout: learning never stops. Give yourself the time, space, and grace to master the process.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

What Kind Of Dreamer Are You?

I’m not sure what book I was reading when it referenced this quote, but it was so powerful that I had to write on it. After looking it up, I found that it comes from Seven Pillars of Wisdom by T.E. Lawrence:

“All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible.”

I’ve been a passive dreamer before, and let me tell you, people who live passively often end up drowning in regret because they procrastinated their way through life. One thing life will show you is that whether you do something or do nothing, time still passes. And if that’s the case, we might as well do something. We might as well go after our dreams.

When we start, we won’t have everything figured out, but all we really need to get going is the will to move forward. If we have that along with a touch of faith and perseverance we’ll become more resourceful as we go. I’m big on asking the Lord to order my steps, to give me wisdom, and to fill me with His Spirit because I don’t want to do anything alone. I need Him with me.

So my question today is, what kind of dreamer are you? Don’t sit on the sidelines when you could be in the game, impacting lives. You hear me talk about imagination all the time it’s one of the greatest gifts God has given us. But if we don’t act on the dreams He placed in our hearts, they’ll never happen. And I believe we will be held accountable for what we do with those dreams.

I’m training myself to dream bigger. Anytime doubt creeps in when I’m thinking beyond what seems possible, I remind myself to go even bigger. Because what you think might take 20 years could actually take 10, then you look back and realize you wasted a decade with no goals or objectives. And for dreamers like me, that can feel like a slow death.

So do yourself a favor—make the dream so big that it feels impossible to achieve in your lifetime.

God Bless The Entrepreneur