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Author: Henry Murphy

Where I Am vs. Where I Want to Be: Routines

This is a thought I find myself coming back to often: where I am right now versus where I want to be. I believe we should all carry this tenacity to strive for better. If we have the ability to be better, we should make it a priority.

In my entrepreneurial journey, there are goals and ambitions I haven’t yet reached. But one thing I’ve learned is that the key to getting there is to give it your all right where you are, while keeping the vision of where you want to go front and center.

Right now, one of my biggest struggles is getting back to eating better. I’ve done well in certain seasons, but it’s like this bad habit keeps creeping back. This has shown me how vital it is to set routines in place that last a lifetime, especially the ones that affect our health and overall well-being.

Routines are the repeated actions or practices that help us shape our days, our progress, and ultimately our lives. When we have strong, consistent routines, they become the framework that supports our success.

What triggered me to write today was waking up feeling sluggish. The cause? What I ate last night: shrimp fried rice and chicken breast from Popeyes. It wasn’t a huge portion, but it didn’t sit well with me. Too much sodium, too much grease. My body felt weak, and I could feel the effects of straying from healthier habits. That moment reminded me how critical it is to have good routines in place, especially around food.

The food I’ve been eating lately is in direct contradiction to where I’m trying to go in my business and life. So I’m putting a meal plan in place—something that I can follow not just for a few weeks or months, but for a lifetime. This isn’t about a quick fix; it’s about building consistency in every area of my life, including what I put in my body.

If you’re reading this and going through the same, you are not alone. Most of us didn’t grow up eating healthy. It’s not an excuse, but it does present a hurdle. The good news is, we can get over it.

God Bless The Entrepreneur.

The Tipping Scale

Do you ever get that feeling that something in your life needs to change immediately? Your career, your finances—maybe even something you can’t quite put into words. I often find myself reflecting on moments in life that tip us in a new direction. The truth is, sometimes the scale can tip us in the wrong direction, but today we’re focusing on the positive. If you haven’t experienced it yet, I promise, if you live long enough, you will.

A tipping scale for me that pushed me closer to God came through a serious series of events. I was around shootings—not directly involved, but close enough to be impacted. These experiences can traumatize you fairly quickly. I can recall two separate shootings that happened within two weeks. My car was even shot up with me and my son inside. I could go on, but you get the picture. I know God used these events to push me closer to Him because the truth is, I could’ve died in any of them.

Another tipping scale for me, especially when it came to finances, was when my family and I had to stay at my grandma’s house. During that time, I got a good job with decent pay, but my focus was on budgeting so I’d never end up in that position again. I remember stacking money, buying everything we’d need for a new home in cash, and storing it in the garage. When we finally moved, I made sure wherever we chose to live, it would be affordable alongside all the other expenses we had to manage.

I’ve experienced many tipping scales in business, but the one that stands out today was when we were at the Remax building. We had a lot of offices, and I could’ve stayed there, but it just didn’t make sense—organizationally or financially. I needed one roof, a space we could call our own, something that was unapologetically ours. The process of going from room to room to remember where everything was got old quick. I started searching for new buildings, and when I found the right one, I knew. Making that move was one of the best feelings in the world.

Your tipping scale might not look like mine. It might not be as dramatic. It could be so small that you almost miss it. But pay attention. Don’t overlook the tipping scales in your life. When they tip in the right direction, they can change your life and give you the momentum you need to reach your goals.

God Bless The Entrepreneur.

Living Through The Screenshot

Get it done. This fight within me is inspired by God. I believe that God will heal me, but even if He doesn’t, I won’t use that as an excuse in my life. It’s hard to push through some days, but the truth is, even without ailments, some days are just hard to push through.

It makes me think of so many people who push through despite the challenges they face.

If we’re talking about my eye situation, Amelia Earhart and Stevie Wonder come to mind. Earhart defied the odds, achieving greatness in a field dominated by men, and she never let societal expectations or fear hold her back. Stevie Wonder, despite being blind, revolutionized music with his extraordinary talent and perseverance. And then there’s a list of others—many we know and countless we don’t. They all inspire me.

It feels like my journey is not just for me, but for other people too. We all have a story that can motivate someone else, and that’s a win. The key is submitting your life to God. That means surrendering everything to Him, letting Him lead you in the direction He created for you. This is a process, and it can’t be faked—God knows everything. Someone in your building, your neighborhood, your job, or your business needs you at your best, so believe that no matter the circumstance.

At this moment, I live by a screenshot. That means most days it’s hard for me to read a social media post, operate an app, or do the things I used to do without taking a screenshot. But I’m grateful that I can still write these blogs, do my podcast, run The Ground Up Academy, and speak into other people’s lives. Regardless of the obstacles, we must find a way to get it done. You know my mantra: make moves or make excuses.

God has a plan for your life if you submit to Him. I pray for grace and abundance in your walk. If you’re not submitted, I hope today is the day you start.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

Staying Focused: A Lesson Learned Through Lost AirPods

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to get caught up in the allure of shiny new things. For me, it was a trip to the Apple Store in Los Angeles that brought this realization front and center. Seeking new earplugs for my AirPods Pro, I found myself surrounded by the latest gadgets and innovations, each one tempting me to deviate from my focus.

As I explored the store, my mind flooded with desires that I had deliberately set aside for the sake of staying on task. The struggle between the immediate gratification of acquiring new gadgets and maintaining discipline was palpable. I had to remind myself: “Needs over once.” This simple mantra became my anchor, grounding me in the purpose behind my six-month journey to build a new skill set.

The turning point came when I revitalized my AirPods Pro with new earpieces. Walking through downtown Los Angeles, engrossed in the newfound clarity of sound, I momentarily lost sight of my primary objective. A stumble on the sidewalk brought me back to reality, and as I regained my balance, I realized my AirPods Pro were missing. The initial panic set in, but I swiftly reminded myself of the mantra: needs over once.

Despite the desire to replace them immediately, I resisted the urge. The lesson became clear: there’s a time for indulgence and a time for focus. I had to accept the loss and continue on my path, understanding that material possessions, no matter how beloved, shouldn’t derail the journey towards personal growth.

The incident served as a metaphor for the broader challenge of balancing immediate desires with long-term goals. The temptation to indulge in the latest gadgets was a reminder that distractions can come in many forms. It underscored the importance of resilience, discipline, and the ability to prioritize needs over momentary wants.

In the end, the lost AirPods Pro became more than a misplaced possession; they became a symbol of self-discipline and a testament to the power of staying focused on the bigger picture. So, the next time the allure of instant gratification tugs at your senses, remember: “Needs over once.” Stay focused on your journey, and you might find that the things you thought you needed were just distractions along the way.

The Pther Side of The Equation

I remember standing in Checkers, and my store was performing well. I was grateful for the success, but deep down, I kept thinking, If I can do this for someone else, I can do it for me. I’m sure this thought has crossed your mind once or twice as well.

An opportunity came up for me to manage an additional store. I was excited, but I knew it would be a lot of work. I needed to ensure my current store continued to perform well, so I had to hire more staff. At the new store, I had to let go of people who weren’t pulling their weight, rebuild the team from the ground up, and focus on training, sales, and productivity.

I remember smiling to myself because I was thankful to even be in this position. When I was younger, I was a hustler by nature and did some unethical things in this same line of business. But by the grace of God, I was given a second chance, and this time, I was focused. It felt like God was giving me an opportunity to redeem myself.

Back to the story—during our monthly meetings, I would look at the P&L (profit and loss statement for those who may not be familiar with the term) and think, This could be my own business. This thought kept coming up. One day, I looked at my salary. I couldn’t complain because I was able to take care of my family, but still, it felt like pennies compared to what I could be earning. I couldn’t shake the feeling. I asked myself, Am I on the wrong side of the equation? Should I be starting my own business?

I knew I had the heart of an entrepreneur, which is why these thoughts kept surfacing. If you’re not an entrepreneur, continue working hard and give your all to your job. But if you are, take the risk. Build your business while you keep your job. Do it the right way so you can build something that lasts.

It wasn’t just me wanting to start my own business that pushed me, but God calling me to be an entrepreneur.

I’ll leave you with this line from KB, “The only life worth living is the one where you take risks.” There’s a lion’s share of purpose and opportunity on the other side of that risk. If God called you to it, He will get you through it.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

Not Sinning Is Not Enough

I can’t remember where I first heard that phrase, but it blew me away. The reason is that when I first became a believer, my main goal was to stop sinning. When you don’t know who God is and you’ve been living life on your own terms, doing whatever you wanted, and then He saves you, the first thing you want to do is live a life free of sin. And don’t get me wrong—this is honorable. I believe we should live lives marked by repentance because we know we sin every day. But there’s more to faith than that.

It’s amazing that God saved you from something, but He also saved you for something. God has been working since the beginning, and He is still at work today. And He has called us to work as well. The work He calls us to is a privilege, in my humble opinion, because it means God wants to partner with us. He has already carved out a specific space for us to do a specific thing, and that is incredible.

How do you start? Well, Matthew 6:33 says it best: “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.” I believe that if we begin with that pursuit of God, He will reveal everything He wants us to do. Be patient. On my journey, I’ve experienced frustration, impatience, and the need for persistence—all part of the journey. All these things prepare us for the task, and the task is daunting. There will likely be many pivots along the way.

One more thing: in the midst of your journey, love others and help them as much as you can. Be grateful, and remember that your joy comes from your relationship with Him.

God Bless The Entrepreneur

Don’t Be Impressed With It

I wrote this thought down: don’t be impressed with it. If you find yourself in a season where God elevates you and you happen to be around people who have status, don’t be impressed with it. Why? Because we know that status isn’t the be-all and end-all in life. If we are truly children of God and those around us are not, we are probably there to impact them. Don’t be influenced by influence if God called us to be the influence. Yes, they may have fame, everyone might know their name, and they may have all the money in the world. But we know there is more to life than just these things.

If we find ourselves in a position of influence or notoriety, it’s essential to remember why we’re there. I remember being on tour with Jonathan McReynolds. I always tried to stay focused on what I was doing and to remember why I was there. Jonathan had a big influence, so there were always whispers about who was backstage. I stayed away from all of that. I remember when we were in Detroit, Justin Bieber was backstage, and I could’ve easily made my way back there. Or when we were in Atlanta, other big names like Tamar Braxton’s were backstage all the time. I met Kirk Franklin, and God opened up a door to do business with him, but the conversation happened close to my booth and not backstage. I could share many more instances, but I just wanted to mention a few names to show you that I’m writing from a place of experience.

Let’s be clear, I am not saying to ignore an opportunity that God may be genuinely connecting you with. Just always keep the main thing the main thing.

Make sure you surround yourself with people who will keep you grounded because it’s easy to get caught up. The worst mistake is thinking that we are immune to being influenced by status and fame because trust me—it can happen to anyone.

As always, I hope this blog reaches the right person at the right time. Often, when I write these blogs, I’m simply recording my thoughts because I feel led by God to do so. I believe in His sovereignty—that He will guide someone to this at the perfect moment.

God Bless The Entrepreneur.

There Is A Lion In The Streets

used to read this proverb all the time that says, “There’s a lion in the street.” It talks about someone being lazy—before they even try, they’ve already decided there’s a lion outside, so they’re not going out.

Yesterday, I caught myself in that same mindset. I was thinking about going out to create some content, but I kept saying, “It’s too hot outside. I’m not going out there.” I hadn’t even checked the temperature; I was just assuming it was too hot. Then my homeboy told me something that hit home: “Man, listen, it’s cool in the shadows. And not only that, there’s a breeze too.”

He was right. I was making excuses before I even tried. And it got me thinking—how many times do we let our fears or assumptions stop us from stepping out? How often do we see challenges as lions in the street and decide not to move?

I am not as lazy as I used to be, and I am thankful for that. But the thing about laziness is that it has a tendency to pop up in our lives, especially when we need to be more diligent. It seems like when we need to take action, we tend to fall back or retreat. In those moments, we have to recognize that we’re being lazy. If we continue to be lazy, we will never accomplish what God has for us to do.

I don’t know why it feels so easy to make excuses before we even try—maybe it’s human nature. But I also know it’s something we can conquer. Let this blog be a reminder that when you start to feel like you’re making excuses, do the opposite. Go out and do it anyway, because in that pursuit, fruit will come from what you’re doing if you stay at it.

Here’s the truth: God doesn’t like lazy. He loves it when we push past our fears and make the effort. So whatever you’re facing today, don’t assume there’s a lion outside before you even step out the door. Make the effort, take the step, and trust that God will meet you there.

God Bless The Entrepreneur.

Stay Connected

In the pursuit of spiritual growth, there comes a moment when one must grapple with the desire for independence. Ironically, as a disciple of Jesus, the decision to follow God often means surrendering the inclination to chart one’s own course and allowing the Shepherd to lead.

Reflecting on a season of profound connection with God, I found myself in a space of unwavering focus and submission. It was a time of clarity, immersed in the study of Yahweh’s word, and walking out each step in alignment with His teachings. Yet, as time unfolded, an unexpected shift occurred.

The clarity that once enveloped me started to feel like an intrusion. I began to question the constant presence of Yahweh’s voice in my life, an internal conflict that, in hindsight, I recognize as a lapse in maturity. God, in His patience, allowed me to navigate through seasons of craving independence, a desire to go rogue and pursue my own desires.

Looking back, I realize the immaturity in wanting Yahweh to step back from being the president of my life. It was a period of turbulence, a struggle between the call to follow and the yearning for personal freedom. It’s a sentiment that many encounter on their faith journey – the desire to lead oneself rather than allowing Yahweh to be the guiding force.

As I matured in my faith, I came to understand that the ultimate goal in life is unity with Yahweh, a continuous connection that transcends fleeting desires for independence. Having experienced the pitfalls of attempting to walk away from His guidance, I now cherish the constant companionship of Yahweh.

This reflection serves as a reminder to those navigating the delicate balance between faith and independence. In moments of uncertainty, it’s crucial to remain steadfast in the journey with Yahweh, recognizing that His faithfulness endures. The desire for personal freedom may arise, but the greater fulfillment lies in walking closely with the One who knows the path best. In the ebb and flow of spiritual maturity, the goal is not to go rogue but to stay connected, for in that connection, true fulfillment is found.

Beneath Your Potential

One thing I’ve realized about life is that not everyone is meant to do what others are called to do, and that’s okay. Everyone has their own path and purpose. Not everyone is destined for a big city or to become a millionaire or billionaire. However, we must not live beneath our potential. But what is potential? It’s the capacity within each of us to achieve more, to grow beyond where we are now, and to pursue the fullest expression of our abilities and gifts.

This idea came to mind when my wife and I were watching a movie about a young woman who owned a botanical garden in Vermont. She was creating incredible products and had done all she could locally, even getting her products into stores. Her business had started to gain some national attention through her online store. Despite her success, she believed she had the potential to take her business international. Her brother was against this, based on his own past experiences, not realizing that he was limiting her potential. She had a grand vision that began when she was young, making soap from natural flowers, and she believed this vision would eventually impact the world. When she finally met the right influencer, she was prepared—she had already put in the work necessary. She had developed over 20 products and was actively working on more. Her dedication and hard work set the stage for her to step into a larger arena.

You might be called to do something incredible right where you are, in your city, and if that’s the height of your potential, embrace it fully. Do everything you can in the place where you are planted. But if you feel called to a bigger city or even another country, then pursue that path. Just don’t live beneath your potential. You may need to push yourself and challenge your own limits to discover what’s inside you. Surround yourself with the right people, find a mentor or coach, read often, immerse yourself in the Word of God, and seek His guidance to direct your steps.

As always, thanks for reading. I hope this blog encourages you today.

God Bless The Entrepreneur.